Here is an update on some careful observations of the oil pressure issue after a 15 minute drive.
It starts and idles and runs at about 40-42 when cold. As it got into the low-warm range (120 degrees) the oil pressure was at about 38 lbs while driving between 2000 and 3000 rpm.
When it got to 180 degrees for the first time, the psi stayed at about 35 degrees while driving.
However, at this point, every time I clutched and allowed the engine to come to idle, it would drop that running pressure down more and more. 33 psi, then 30 psi, then 28, till after going back to idle then back to running, it leveled off at about 25 psi while running and 18 while idling.
I am using 15w40 oil, and a bit of the Lucas stabilizer. It was 80 degrees ambient while driving.
I haven't had time to test anything related to oil pressure. Just hunting for what these symptoms might tell me.