Update - bought the OEM part for cheap through a dealer in the south on Thursday, wrote to them several times and got a first response of "It will be here Monday" and then nothing until today. Wrote again and they said "oh we don't have it in stock and we can't get it." Said "your website said you had it in stock and also said that it was going to be there Monday" to which I got "oh well we don't pay attention to the website info."
I was going to lose my shit, but then realized a long-learned lesson that LR dealers are clowns and I shoulda just gone to RN. Which I then did post-refund, ordered the part and got a Fedex shipping notice 25 minutes later. Was a little more cost but so totally worth it.